When you judge someone before knowing them, you do not define them: you define yourself
Next time you meet someone and you think they are too loud, rude, arrogant, or obnoxious just remember that you may just have caught them at a bad time. More importantly maybe they are touching a nerve inside of you in which you dare not look at it. We are hating behavior in others that we hate about ourselves.
A Mirror reflects only the truth, to those who are willing to see it.
The mirror reveals in the physical what is going on in the spiritual